To Have Afterlife Connections, You Must Learn to Accept Natural Free Unfoldment
We receive images, thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, and messages regularly, throughout the day, from our guides, helpers, and loved ones. However, as a culture, we have lost the ability to acknowledge and process them. It’s easier to do so when we’re being creative, because we want these inspirations that we call “my imagination.” However, in the rest or our lives, we reject the natural unfoldments. We regard them as irrational and unreliable. “It was just my imagination,” we say.
But these unfolding images, thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, and messages that are unexpected and outside of our normal thinking are coming from our loved ones, guides, higher selves, and the Source. We are taught by our society not to regard the messages as real or valid, so we don’t listen to them, and we miss many messages from our loved ones, guides, higher selves, and the Source. You can learn to be more sensitive to free unfoldment.
Seek Reality Online has a free online training program that will teach you how to go into a state of relaxation in which you can allow the free unfoldments to occur. It is at afterlifeinstitute.org/self-guided/. The short training exercise that follows will help you learn to allow free unfoldment as a first step in having afterlife communication.
The Content of This Training
- In the first three, you will listen to a series of words until you are able to allow free unfoldment.
- In the fourth, you will say certain words to yourself in your mind and will wait for something to unfold.
- In the fifth, you will enter into a dialogue with someone in the afterlife, allowing free unfoldment to occur.
Activity 1: Learn to allow free sight unfoldment for words
The audio that follows has a series of words. As you hear a word, allow the first image or impression come into your mind. Don’t try to imagine something. You must accept whatever comes to you. That is free unfoldment.
If you found yourself consciously bringing to mind something, such as for bird thinking, ‘I’ll imagine a cardinal. That was Mom’s favorite bird,” then that was not free unfoldment. It was you imagining or bringing to memory. What comes must come without your intention to allow something to come. It may be a surprise. You must learn to feel what it is like to have something come to mind without your intention. It just pops up.
If nothing came to mind, then you’re not accustomed to being hyper-sensitive to what comes into your mind. Your consciousness is always active. It never stops, even when you’re being quiet. You’re getting things, but they’re just not registering if you don’t feel like anything is coming. If you’re getting nothing, then you’re just missing what’s there.
If either of these was true (you were making impressions or sights come or nothing came), you still must become sensitive to unfoldment without your control. Go through the exercise again. Go through it as often as necessary until you have free unfoldment come to you. That ability is critical to being able to receive messages from the afterlife.
Activity 2: Learn to allow free unfoldment for smells
The audio that follows has a series of descriptions of smells. As you hear a word, allow the first smell or impression come into your mind. Don’t try to imagine something. You must accept whatever comes to you. It may not be a smell. Accept whatever comes.
Each time you heard a description of a smell, something should have popped into your mind without pause, immediately. It may not have made any sense. That’s fine. It’s free unfoldment.
Activity 3: Learn to allow free unfoldment for sounds
The audio that follows has a series of descriptions of sounds. As you hear a word, allow the first sound or impression come into your mind. Don’t try to imagine something. You must accept whatever comes to you. It may not be a sound. Accept whatever comes.
Each time you heard a description of a sound, something should have popped into your mind. It may not have made any sense. That’s fine. Let these things that don’t make sense come freely.
Activity 4: Say certain words to yourself in your mind and allow something to unfold
When you’re able to allow free unfoldment with the words in the first activity, go on to this activity. You must practice the first activity until you are successful before going on to this activity.
In this activity, say words in your mind that pertain to the person in spirit you want to connect with. For example, say their name. Say the name of the city you lived in together. Say a pet’s name. Do that will 10 words. After you say each word, the first thing that comes to mind is unfoldment.
Repeat this activity until you are able to allow free unfoldment successfully with all 10 words. If you aren’t getting anything, then go back to the first activity and practice allowing free unfoldment again.
Activity 5: Enter into a yes-no exchange with someone in the afterlife
In this activity, relax into a receptive state of mind and ask very simple questions that require only a one-word response. Begin by asking your loved one to come close to you. Then ask a simple question, such as “John, are you here?” The first notion that unfolds is the response. It could be “Yes” or could be an image or song or some silly thing like an apple. Whatever it is, allow it to unfold. Stay with it as it unfolds.
When it is finished unfolding, go on to the next statement. “Are you busy in the afterlife?” or other such simple question requiring a “yes” or other response.
Go through as many of these questions as necessary until you consistently have something unfold.
If nothing unfolds, go back to the first two activities and practice them. Then come back to this third activity.
Activity 4: Enter into a dialogue with someone in the afterlife
If you’re getting the “yes-no” responses, you’re ready to get the rest. After the “yes” or “no” response, there’s a comment. You just have to get it. It’s a reason for the “yes” or “no.” You will just know it. Why is the person saying “yes” or “no”? That’s the message.
Respond to the message with your own statement. The first thing that comes to mind after that is the response. If nothing comes, ask another yes-no question and get the answer “yes” or “no.” Then ask why again. At some point in this activity, you’ll enter a dialogue.
If you’re not getting much and feel like you want to give up, say “I’m giving up now” and then stay in the relaxed state for a few minutes. Notice whatever comes. At times, the giving-up period is when you’ve finally relaxed and let anything come, resulting in your getting the message.